So far everything on this shiny new blog has been pretty tame. Some would probably even say lame.
Now for some heavy stuff…
It’s not like I sit around thinking about things like assisted suicide on a regular basis. But every so often some event, some moment will occur that brings it to the forefront.
The most recent moment was Jeff Moriarty’s talk at Ignite Phoenix After Hours (IPAH). Typically IPAH talks are around things like sex. Or relationships. Or sex. Jeff however gave a passionate heart-felt talk on assisted suicide, physician-assisted death, “death with dignity”, whatever term you care to use.
And his talk got me to thinking again.
I’ve never understood why we expect the terminally ill to suffer needlessly. Oh, we have the pharmacology to keep pain at bay, though in some situations such as end-stage cancer the only way to eliminate the pain it to pump opiates into someone at a rate that practically puts them in a coma. Alzheimer’s Disease is utterly horrific, probably more so on the friends and families of those stricken than the patients themselves. They say Alzheimer’s causes no pain, but how do you measure the pain of losing your mind — to the point where you don’t even recognize your own children?
My dog has cancer. Right now best as we can tell she is cancer free. But there is a 70% chance the tumor she had that was recently removed will come back. Should it get to a point where Trudy the Wonder Dog is uncomfortable, or can’t enjoy quality of life she’ll be swiftly and painlessly euthanized. It will be sad and painful for us, but clearly it is the humane thing to do for her.
But should, God forbid, someone in my family be stricken with a terminal illness, they won’t have that option. Instead, they will waste away, in pain or a drug-induced fog so thick they won’t know where they are.
We put animals to sleep when they are suffering and nothing more can be done. But we let sentient human beings that we love suffer needlessly when they are in the same position.
Does that make any sense?
Right now, physician assisted suicide is specifically authorized in just two states — Oregon and Washington. In December 2009 the Montana Supreme Court ruled that physician- assisted suicide was not illegal, but from what I can gather that ruling is being appealed and the Montana legislature has been locked in debate whether or not to craft a law specifically allowing it as their neighbors to the west do.
Something needs to change
I’m not saying that laws need to be created to allow physicians to go crazy with prescription pads, writing scripts for lethal doses of medicine to anyone that asks for it. That would be insane. But for the terminally ill, why shouldn’t they have the choice, and be able to get some help, to die with grace and dignity on their own terms?
The Oregon Death with Dignity Act strictly prohibits “lethal injection, mercy killing, or active euthanasia.” But it allows mentally competent adults who declare their intentions in writing, and have been diagnosed as terminally ill, to take a doctor-prescribed lethal drug themselves, orally, after a waiting period.
To me, this makes sense.
Yeah, it’s a touchy subject, and subject to much moral and ethical debate. But those debates need to happen. Suicide in our society is a taboo subject. No one likes to think about it. In a very few special circumstances though — such as with the terminally ill — I happen to think it is well past time that this be opened up for real debate, and action.
Want to watch a documentary that will make you think, regardless of your position on assisted death? Watch Choosing to Die (available on Vime0). British author Terry Pratchett, diagnosed with a rare form of early-onset Alzheimer’s Disease, follows a couple of UK citizens as they travel to Switzerland’s Dignitas, a Swiss organizations for assisted death. It’s a compelling look at several aspects of this topic.
Roberta Murphy
A far more personal decision than even abortion.
Jay Thompson
Indeed Roberta. Abortion is on the potential topic list too…
Jeffrey Douglass
Jay, First off the site looks really good and clean, very impressed with the theme. Secondly, thank you for the video link, and very hard question of assisted suicide. Watched it all and bookmarked it.
Jay Thompson
It’s a very well done and thought provoking video, regardless of one’s position. And thanks for the compliment!
Laura
Hi Jay~ As someone who has a parent in the last stages of dementia this has come up in our family. The man I knew as my father had so much integrity and pride, that it breaks our hearts knowing he is physically in a state that if he were in his right mind, would most likely take his own life simply to spare us the pain. Emotionally, physically and financially. Something does need to change…at least to have a choice.
love the new site 🙂
Jay Thompson
Laura – I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad. I hope you know that if you ever need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry/lean on, I’m here for you. Hang in there kiddo.
Inna Hardison
Jay – even the Oregon law is lacking though, in my opinion, as it doesn’t offer any relief to those who are fully aware mentally, and yet are physically unable to take a pill, and would need help. I don’t understand why literally starving someone to death is ok, by virtue of not interfering, but assisting people to die painlessly and with what dignity they have left is wrong and illegal. Can’t think of anything less civilized than what happens at hospices and other facilities on a daily basis. Not the way I’d want anyone I love to go.
Jay Thompson
That’s a great point Inna. I know a couple of hospice workers that are amazingly compassionate but are handcuffed in their ability to help by arcane laws and taboos.
kathy carpenter
Something has got to give. Life is a gift and I cherish it, but as with all gifts, the option to return the gift should be mine. When the gift is no longer of value to me and it is causing suffering to those that I would spare at all costs, it’s time to return the gift.
Jay Thompson
Agreed completely oh lovely sister of mine!